Film

Coming Home

Name: Coming Home
Genre: Drama, Romance, War
Released: 1978
Cast: Jane Fonda, Jon Voight, Bruce Dern, Penelope Milford, Robert Carradine

A Marine wife's slow awakening while her husband is at war, and the paraplegic veteran who becomes both her lover and her conscience. Jane Fonda and Jon Voight carry a film that's less about combat than about what combat does to the people left standing at home. Quiet, aching, and still one of the most honest American films about Vietnam without a single jungle scene.

TMDb rating

7.0

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