Film

When Do We Eat?

Name: When Do We Eat?
Genre: Comedy
Released: 2006
Cast: Michael Lerner, Lesley Ann Warren, Jack Klugman, Meredith Scott Lynn, Shiri Appleby

Comedy

A Jewish family comedy centered on a Passover Seder that goes wildly off the rails when a well-meaning son doses his rigid, old-school father with ecstasy. It's warm-hearted but weird, hitting notes between sitcom sincerity and genuine awkwardness. For people who enjoy family dysfunction played for laughs and don't mind when things get genuinely strange.

TMDb rating

2.6

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy sharp, talky family comedies where the bickering is the point and a bad night unravels into something almost tender, the way a well-run dinner party does when the wine runs out.

Skip it if you want big laughs or a brisk plot, since this one leans on awkward silences, lingering arguments and a single room that starts to feel crowded before the hour is up.

What it asks of you: Settle in for an unhurried, single-evening chat-driven film of about an hour and a half, where your patience with prickly characters matters more than any set-piece payoff.

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