Film

Goodbye to All That

Name: Goodbye to All That
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 2014
Cast: Paul Schneider, Anna Camp, Michael Chernus, Heather Graham, Ashley Hinshaw

Family drama

A middle-aged man navigates the wreckage of his marriage and attempts to rebuild his life through awkward dating and fractured parenting. It's a gentle, unglamorous comedy about ordinary unhappiness—messy but humane, more interested in uncomfortable conversations than easy laughs.

TMDb rating

2.5

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