Film

The Cider House Rules

Name: The Cider House Rules
Genre: Drama
Released: 1999
Cast: Tobey Maguire, Charlize Theron, Michael Caine, Delroy Lindo, Paul Rudd

Coming-of-age

A young man raised in an orphanage by a principled doctor must choose between the safe life planned for him and the messy freedom of the outside world. Tender and unhurried, it's a film about mentorship, sacrifice, and the gap between what we're told is right and what we discover ourselves. A quiet meditation on duty, love, and becoming your own person.

TMDb rating

3.5

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