Film

Surviving Christmas

Name: Surviving Christmas
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 2004
Cast: Ben Affleck, James Gandolfini, Christina Applegate, Catherine O'Hara, Josh Zuckerman

Comedy
Light-hearted

A wealthy, lonely executive pays a working-class family to impersonate his relatives for Christmas, hoping to recreate childhood magic. It's a sentimental comedy about connection and belonging that wears its heart openly. Uneven but genuine, it aims for the soft centre of people who miss something they're not sure they ever had.

TMDb rating

2.9

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