Film

She's the One

Name: She's the One
Genre: Romance, Comedy
Released: 1996
Cast: Jennifer Aniston, Maxine Bahns, Edward Burns, Cameron Diaz, John Mahoney

Comedy
Light-hearted

A 1996 romantic comedy about two competitive brothers—a cabbie and a stockbroker—who clash over the same woman while navigating marriages that don't satisfy them. Snappy, ensemble-driven, and built on the appealing chaos of people wanting what they can't have. It's a movie that trusts you'll enjoy watching attractive people be confused about their lives.

TMDb rating

2.8

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like sibling squabbling comedies where the bickering is funny because it's rooted in real affection and wounded pride, rather than slapstick.

Skip it if you want a tidy romance; this one is talky, circles the same arguments, and asks you to sympathise with two prickly men.

What it asks of you: It runs about an hour and a half and keeps a brisk, chatty pace, so it wants your attention on dialogue more than on visuals.

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