Film

No Strings Attached

Name: No Strings Attached
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 2011
Cast: Natalie Portman, Ashton Kutcher, Kevin Kline, Cary Elwes, Greta Gerwig

Romantic comedy
Light-hearted

A rom-com about two friends who try to separate sex from emotion through a casual arrangement. Glossy, warm, and played with genuine chemistry, it's made for people who believe feelings might sneak up on you anyway. Best watched when you're in the mood for something that doesn't ask much of you.

TMDb rating

3.1

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like light romantic comedies built on sharp banter between two old friends, where the funny lines come from real awkwardness about sex and feelings rather than slapstick.

Skip it if you want a fresh take on the friends-to-lovers premise, since its rom-com beats are familiar and the middle stretches on longer than the jokes can comfortably carry.

What it asks of you: It runs about 107 minutes at an easy, conversational pace, staying mostly light and chatty, asking you to follow a couple of characters' small hesitations rather than any complicated plot.

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