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The Ugly Truth

A morning-show producer and her sexist male coworker strike a bet about dating. She thinks he's a Neanderthal; he thinks she's clueless. Cue makeovers, humiliation, and the slow realization they might actually understand each other. It's trashy, fast, and wants you to have fun more than it wants to be smart.

TMDb rating3.3

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy broad, sharp-tongued romantic comedies where the sparring between two stubborn leads does most of the work, and you don't mind the sexual humour running hot.

Skip it if you want a gentle, slow-burning romance; this runs at a brisk, loud clip and leans on crude gags and a grating, self-satisfied male lead for much of its ninety-six minutes.

What it asks of you: Little more than your willingness to laugh at bluntness and keep up with fast back-and-forth; it moves quickly, rarely lingers on feeling, and mostly wants you along for the squabbling.

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Both hinge on a woman being pressured to change to attract a man, then finding out she was right about him all along. The Ugly Truth is trashy catharsis; Bridget Jones is the same story with actual wit and character growth.

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