Film

Playing It Cool

Name: Playing It Cool
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 2014
Cast: Chris Evans, Michelle Monaghan, Topher Grace, Aubrey Plaza, Luke Wilson

Romantic comedy
Light-hearted

A romantic comedy about a commitment-phobic screenwriter who falls hard for an engaged woman, then spends ninety minutes trying to justify his terrible idea. It's a film that understands its own ridiculousness without quite committing to the bit. Best for people who still believe love can override logic, or who enjoy watching smart people make predictably dumb choices.

TMDb rating

2.9

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