Film

Instant Family

Name: Instant Family
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 2018
Cast: Mark Wahlberg, Rose Byrne, Allyn Rachel, Isabela Merced, Julie Hagerty

Family drama

A comedy-drama about a well-meaning couple who adopt three siblings from foster care and discover that parenthood, especially to kids with trauma histories, is nothing like they imagined. Warm without being saccharine, funny without undercutting its serious moments. For anyone curious about what foster care actually looks like, or who loves watching people get in over their heads with pure intentions.

TMDb rating

3.8

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy warm family comedies that find real feeling under the broad jokes, and you don't mind a story that lingers on awkward, messy domestic moments before it gets sentimental.

Skip it if you want sharp, fast laughs throughout, since at 118 minutes the film spends a lot of its time on earnest emotional beats and the gags can feel padded between them.

What it asks of you: Settle in for a long, gentle ride with plenty of room for everyday chaos. It moves at a comfortable pace and stays mostly light, though it pauses often for heart.

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