Film

The Fundamentals of Caring

Name: The Fundamentals of Caring
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 2016
Cast: Paul Rudd, Craig Roberts, Selena Gomez, Jennifer Ehle, Megan Ferguson

Drama

A grieving, failed novelist takes a job caring for a sharp-tongued teenager with muscular dystrophy, and the two end up on a shambling road trip toward a giant hole in the ground. It's a two-hander built on banter and slow-earned trust — funny before it's sad, sad before it lets you off easy. Good for anyone who wants their tearjerker to have jokes in it first.

TMDb rating

3.6

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like road movies where two wounded people bicker their way toward each other, with dry humor that sits beside real grief and never jokes at the expense of the pain.

Skip it if you need a brisk plot with a firm destination, since this one wanders from stop to stop, lingering over small detours and quiet stretches between jokes.

What it asks of you: It asks for patience with a gentle, rambling shape across ninety-seven minutes, and for letting sadness and laughter share the same scene without rushing either.

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