Film

Flock of Dudes

Name: Flock of Dudes
Genre: Comedy
Released: 2015
Cast: Chris D'Elia, Hannah Simone, Skylar Astin, Bryan Greenberg, Brett Gelman

Buddy comedy
Light-hearted

A 30-something man tries to break up with his group of perpetually immature best friends to finally become an adult. It's a gentle, character-driven comedy about the friction between loyalty and growth, where everyone involved is likeable enough that you genuinely care about whether the friendship survives. For people who've felt the pull between who they were and who they're becoming.

TMDb rating

2.8

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