Film

Good Dick

Name: Good Dick
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 2008
Cast: Marianna Palka, Jason Ritter, Eric Edelstein, Mark Webber, Martin Starr

A video store clerk pursues a reclusive woman who haunts the porn section of his shop, and she surprisingly lets him in—sometimes. Marianna Palka's feature directorial debut is a tender, funny, deeply awkward romantic comedy that takes stalking seriously as a problem even as it watches two damaged people genuinely connect. Charming and uncomfortable in equal measure.

TMDb rating

3.0

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