Film

Paddleton

Name: Paddleton
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 2019
Cast: Mark Duplass, Ray Romano, Christine Woods, Jen Sung, Stephen Oyoung

Medical drama

Paddleton is a deceptively quiet film about two lonely neighbors—a reserved man in his fifties and an eccentric younger guy—who discover genuine friendship just as mortality enters the picture. It's funny without being cute, sad without being sentimental. A film for people who believe the best relationships are the ones that sneak up on you.

TMDb rating

3.5

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like small, quiet stories where two lonely men bicker about nothing, the jokes stay close to the bone, and you don't mind being moved by surprise.

Skip it if you want a plot that keeps moving, since this is a slow, hangout-style film built around small rituals and long silences that some viewers will find thin.

What it asks of you: Under ninety minutes at an unhurried pace, its sadness arrives gradually and its humour stays dry, so it rewards an evening when you can settle in.

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