Film

Thumbsucker

Name: Thumbsucker
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 2005
Cast: Lou Taylor Pucci, Tilda Swinton, Vincent D'Onofrio, Keanu Reeves, Benjamin Bratt

Coming-of-age

A warmly funny indie film about a seventeen-year-old thumb-sucker navigating suburban Oregon: high school, first love, ADHD medication, and the quiet absurdity of growing up. Mike Mills directs with genuine affection for his characters' small struggles and big feelings. Quirky without being twee, melancholic without being bleak.

TMDb rating

3.1

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