Film

The Perks of Being a Wallflower

Name: The Perks of Being a Wallflower
Genre: Drama
Released: 2012
Cast: Logan Lerman, Emma Watson, Ezra Miller, Mae Whitman, Kate Walsh

A gentle, aching high-school drama set in early-90s Pittsburgh, told through the eyes of a shy freshman finding his people via mixtapes, midnight screenings and a pair of magnetic seniors. It's tender rather than cynical about teenage pain, sincere about first love and slowly unspools a real trauma underneath the nostalgia. Good for anyone who wants their coming-of-age story soft-focused but not hollow.

TMDb rating

7.8

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