Film

If I Stay

Name: If I Stay
Genre: Drama
Released: 2014
Cast: Chloë Grace Moretz, Jamie Blackley, Liana Liberato, Mireille Enos, Joshua Leonard

Coming-of-age

A supernatural romance about a talented cellist caught between life and death after a car accident, forced to choose whether to wake up or let go. It's a tearjerker with genuine emotional stakes, anchored by a strong lead performance. For anyone who's ever wondered what it would take to fight for the people you love—or whether you should.

TMDb rating

3.7

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