Film

Me Before You

Name: Me Before You
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2016
Cast: Emilia Clarke, Sam Claflin, Janet McTeer, Charles Dance, Brendan Coyle

A glossy British weepie built on the reliable machinery of forbidden love: a broke, bubbly caretaker and the wealthy, embittered quadriplegic man she's hired to look after fall for each other in a castle full of old money and older grief. It's tender, funny in places, shamelessly manipulative in others, and ends exactly where the trailer warned you it would. Bring tissues, not scepticism.

TMDb rating

4.0

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you want a love story driven by the friction of two very different people sizing each other up, with dry English humour carrying the lighter scenes.

Skip it if you prefer sentiment kept at arm's length; this one plays its feelings openly and a little heavily, and its sweetness can feel syrupy.

What it asks of you: A 110-minute run of unhurried rhythm in cosy English settings, asking you to stay patient with the slow build and to meet its feelings halfway.

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