Film

P.S. I Love You

Name: P.S. I Love You
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2007
Cast: Hilary Swank, Gerard Butler, Lisa Kudrow, Harry Connick Jr., Gina Gershon

A widow receives mysterious letters from her deceased husband, each one pushing her toward healing, reconnection, and a life beyond grief. It's a tearjerker that believes in the transformative power of love and friendship, aimed squarely at people who want their hearts broken open in the best way possible.

TMDb rating

3.6

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like grief handled with sentimental warmth, where the tears come from small domestic moments and a wry friendship rather than from tragedy alone.

Skip it if you find big-hearted sentiment hard to sit through, since it leans on sweetness and soft-focus montage for well over two hours.

What it asks of you: Two hours and six minutes of patient, unhurried storytelling that expects you to stay with the feeling rather than hurry past it.

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