Film

The Best of Me

Name: The Best of Me
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2014
Cast: Michelle Monaghan, James Marsden, Luke Bracey, Liana Liberato, Gerald McRaney

A sweeping romance about two people who fell in love young, drifted apart, and find themselves pulled back together when they return home. It's earnest and emotional, unafraid of grand gestures and the messy overlap of nostalgia with present-day reality. For anyone who's ever wondered what might have been.

TMDb rating

3.7

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you want a slow-burning romance where past and present tangle in a small town, and you don't mind sentiment turned up loud.

Skip it if you find earnest, syrupy melodrama hard to sit through, since it leans on sentiment and its pace rarely surprises.

What it asks of you: Settle in for just under two hours, with long stretches that jump between two timelines and let quiet glances carry as much weight as dialogue.

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