Film

The Time Traveler's Wife

Name: The Time Traveler's Wife
Genre: Drama, Romance, Fantasy
Released: 2009
Cast: Eric Bana, Rachel McAdams, Arliss Howard, Ron Livingston, Stephen Tobolowsky

A tender, aching sci-fi romance about loving someone who keeps disappearing and reappearing out of order. Bana's Henry can't control when he vanishes; McAdams' Clare spends her whole life waiting for him to catch up. It's Nicholas Sparks with a genetics footnote — earnest, weepy, occasionally silly about its own logic, but sincere about grief, longing, and the unfairness of time.

TMDb rating

7.0

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