Film

Love Happens

Name: Love Happens
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2009
Cast: Aaron Eckhart, Jennifer Aniston, Dan Fogler, John Carroll Lynch, Martin Sheen

A self-help guru confronting his own grief through an unlikely romance. It's a gentle, earnest drama about the gap between what we teach and what we live, anchored by two actors who genuinely like each other. Sweet rather than complex, it's for people who believe in second chances and aren't embarrassed by sincerity.

TMDb rating

2.9

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