Film

Lonesome Jim

Name: Lonesome Jim
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 2005
Cast: Casey Affleck, Kevin Corrigan, Liv Tyler, Mary Kay Place, Seymour Cassel

Drama

A failed writer returns to his Midwestern hometown defeated and self-pitying. When his despair triggers his brother's suicide attempt, Jim is forced to confront his own narcissism while tentatively connecting with a kind woman who sees through his performance. It's a small, unglamorous film about recognizing that your pain isn't the entire world.

TMDb rating

3.1

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