Film

I Am Sam

Name: I Am Sam
Genre: Drama
Released: 2001
Cast: Sean Penn, Michelle Pfeiffer, Dianne Wiest, Dakota Fanning, Richard Schiff

Drama

Sean Penn plays Sam, a man with an intellectual disability raising his daughter Lucy alone in San Francisco. It's a sincere, unironic drama about parental love and what it means to be adequate—occasionally sentimental, often moving, anchored by genuine performances and Dakota Fanning's remarkable screen presence. For anyone who responds to stories about unconventional families and the quiet heroism of showing up.

TMDb rating

3.8

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you want a courtroom-and-kitchen-table story that leans on performance and sentiment, the kind that will have you crying into the credits even while you see the seams.

Skip it if you find sentimental films with a hushed, piano-scored tenderness hard to sit through, since it never lets a scene breathe without underlining its feeling twice.

What it asks of you: Settle in for just over two hours of unhurried, close-up scenes that ask you to stay with people's small moments rather than chase a plot.

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