Film

Happy Accidents

Name: Happy Accidents
Genre: Comedy, Romance, Science Fiction
Released: 2000
Cast: Marisa Tomei, Vincent D'Onofrio, Nadia Dajani, Tovah Feldshuh, Richard Portnow

Comedy
Light-hearted

A screwball romance that uses time-travel mythology to probe whether we can ever truly trust anyone, or ourselves. Marisa Tomei meets Vincent D'Onofrio in contemporary New York; he claims he's from 2470. Funny, tender, and philosophically sly—for people who like their love stories tangled with ideas.

TMDb rating

3.4

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy romantic comedies that treat a far-fetched premise as a test of commitment, with sharp dialogue about the small evasions people use when a new love starts to feel real.

Skip it if you need the sci-fi side to deliver real spectacle or rigorous logic; this is a light, talky chamber piece where the time-travel conceit mostly serves the romance.

What it asks of you: A brisk, dialogue-driven hour and fifty minutes that stays in one city and mostly in conversation, rewarding close listening over visual flair.

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