Film

Three to Tango

Name: Three to Tango
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 1999
Cast: Matthew Perry, Neve Campbell, Dylan McDermott, Oliver Platt, Cylk Cozart

Comedy
Light-hearted

A 1999 romantic comedy built on a deception: a struggling architect pretends to be gay to impress a wealthy client, then falls for the woman he's sent to spy on. Matthew Perry and Neve Campbell navigate charming chemistry across an increasingly creaky premise. It's earnest, lightweight, and pitched at people who want their romance uncomplicated and their laughs gentle.

TMDb rating

2.8

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