Film

Come as You Are

Name: Come as You Are
Genre: Romance
Released: 2011
Cast: Tateto Serizawa, Peyton Chiba, Heisuke Konishi, Nagisa Umeno, Saya Yasuda

Comedy
Light-hearted

A Japanese romantic comedy about a part-time actor wrestling with premature ejaculation and his determination to overcome it with his friend's help. Cheerfully vulgar and surprisingly tender, it mines genuine comedy from sexual anxiety while treating its protagonist's struggle with unexpected warmth. For anyone who appreciates sex comedies that don't punch down.

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