Film

Finding Your Feet

Name: Finding Your Feet
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Family, Music, Romance
Released: 2017
Cast: Imelda Staunton, Celia Imrie, Timothy Spall, Joanna Lumley, David Hayman

Family drama

A warm comedy-drama about a woman whose marriage crumbles and finds unexpected joy—and herself—through friendship and dance in London. Sandra's journey from betrayal to liberation unfolds gently, with real affection for its cast of misfits. It's genuinely funny, occasionally moving, and utterly unpretentious.

TMDb rating

3.5

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy warm, big-hearted comedy where the laughs come from character and the older cast's easy chemistry rather than from gags.

Skip it if you want a tight, plot-driven story, since this one is loose and sentimental, leaning on feel-good sweetness that can start to feel easy.

What it asks of you: It runs about 111 minutes at an unhurried, gentle pace, asking you to settle in with its characters rather than chase a sharp plot.

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