Film

Simon & the Oaks

Name: Simon & the Oaks
Genre: Drama, History, War
Released: 2011
Cast: Bill Skarsgård, Helen Sjöholm, Jan Josef Liefers, Katharina Schüttler, Stefan Gödicke

Period drama
Slow-burning

A Swedish period drama following Simon, a boy who discovers his adoption and Jewish heritage in post-war Gothenburg. Spanning the 1940s-50s, it traces his journey toward understanding identity, belonging, and the weight of history through intimate family relationships. Thoughtful and unhurried, built on quiet revelations rather than drama for its own sake.

TMDb rating

3.2

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