Film

Au Revoir les Enfants

Name: Au Revoir les Enfants
Genre: Drama, War
Released: 1987
Cast: Gaspard Manesse, Raphael Fejtö, Francine Racette, Stanislas Carré de Malberg, Philippe Morier-Genoud

A quiet, devastating memory piece: Louis Malle looks back at his own wartime boarding-school days and finds, at the centre, an act of ordinary betrayal he never forgave himself for. Nothing is telegraphed — snowball fights and schoolboy squabbles carry the same weight as the war outside, until they don't. It's for people who want their history delivered in whispers, not speeches.

TMDb rating

7.5

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