Film

Amour

Name: Amour
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2012
Cast: Jean-Louis Trintignant, Emmanuelle Riva, Isabelle Huppert, Alexandre Tharaud, William Shimell

Michael Haneke's clinical, unflinching study of an elderly Parisian couple as illness dismantles their long marriage. Shot mostly within their apartment, it's slow, quiet, and almost unbearably intimate — no swelling music, no easy comfort. It's a film about love as duty and devastation, demanding patience and a strong stomach for tenderness that offers no relief. Not for the faint-hearted, but astonishing.

TMDb rating

7.8

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