Film

Respiro

Name: Respiro
Genre: Drama
Released: 2002
Cast: Valeria Golino, Vincenzo Amato, Francesco Casisa, Veronica D'Agostino, Filippo Pucillo

Drama
Slow-burning

Respiro is a tender, unflinching portrait of mental illness on a remote Sicilian island. Valeria Golino plays Grazia, a spirited mother whose manic-depressive episodes terrify and confuse her tight-knit family. Director Catalina Golino crafts something intimate and unhurried, capturing both the beauty of Mediterranean life and the isolating weight of untreated illness. It's for viewers patient with ambiguity and moved by portraits of people struggling to be understood.

TMDb rating

3.3

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