Film

Away from Her

Name: Away from Her
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2007
Cast: Gordon Pinsent, Julie Christie, Michael Murphy, Olympia Dukakis, Kristen Thomson

Away from Her is Sarah Polley's remarkable directorial debut, adapting Alice Munro's story about a husband and wife of nearly fifty years confronting Alzheimer's. Gordon Pinsent and Julie Christie underplay everything, which makes the small cruelties land harder. It's quiet, literary, unhurried — more interested in the specific ache of being forgotten by someone still alive than in melodrama. For anyone drawn to patient, adult films about marriage, memory and the limits of love.

TMDb rating

7.0

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