Film

M. Butterfly

Name: M. Butterfly
Genre: Romance, Drama, History
Released: 1993
Cast: Jeremy Irons, John Lone, Barbara Sukowa, Annabel Leventon, Shizuko Hoshi

David Cronenberg's adaptation of David Henry Hwang's play is a fever dream of obsession, identity and self-deception. A French diplomat becomes fatally entangled with a Beijing opera singer across decades of Cold War intrigue. Visually sumptuous and psychologically baroque, it rewards patience with a third act that rewrites everything you thought you understood.

TMDb rating

3.3

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy a story built on theatrical artifice and self-deception, where the slow unmasking of a love affair is as much about what the lover wants to believe as what is true.

Skip it if you want a brisk plot or a clear emotional payoff; the film moves at a deliberate, stage-like pace and keeps its characters at a cool, ironic distance.

What it asks of you: Around a hundred minutes of patient attention, with long, quiet scenes that reward you for noticing what people are not saying.

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