Film

A Month by the Lake

Name: A Month by the Lake
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 1995
Cast: Vanessa Redgrave, Edward Fox, Uma Thurman, Alida Valli, Carlo Cartier

Drama
Light-hearted

A delicate 1995 comedy-romance set at Lake Como in 1937, where a reserved Englishwoman in her twilight years unexpectedly finds herself competing for a gentle major's affection with a restless young American. It's a film about desire arriving late, the small rebellions of middle age, and how spring can surprise anyone. Intelligent, tender, and funny without trying too hard.

TMDb rating

2.9

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