Film

Our Town

Name: Our Town
Genre: Drama, TV Movie
Released: 2003
Cast: Paul Newman, Maggie Lacey, Ben Fox, Jayne Atkinson, Jane Curtin

Other titles called Our Town: the 1940 film.

Drama
Slow-burning

Paul Newman guides us through Grover's Corners, New Hampshire, where nothing much happens and everything matters. Thornton Wilder's play finds the extraordinary in everyday life—a wedding, a conversation, ordinary people becoming suddenly precious in hindsight. It's intimate and unhurried, asking what we're really here for. For anyone who's ever felt the ache of recognizing a perfect ordinary moment as it slips away.

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