Film

Twice Born

Name: Twice Born
Genre: Drama, Romance, War
Released: 2012
Cast: Penélope Cruz, Emile Hirsch, Adnan Hasković, Saadet Işıl Aksoy, Pietro Castellitto

War drama
Romance
Very dark

Twice Born is a sweeping melodrama that braids intimate family trauma with the chaos of war. When a mother returns to Sarajevo with her teenage son to confront the ghosts of a lost love, the film explores how violence reverberates through generations. It's visually lush, emotionally unflinching, and very much a European art-house romance—gorgeous but occasionally overwhelming.

TMDb rating

3.7

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