Film

My Happy Family

Name: My Happy Family
Genre: Drama
Released: 2017
Cast: Ia Shugliashvili, Merab Ninidze, Berta Khapava, Tsisia Qumsashvili, Giorgi Khurtsilava

Family drama

A 52-year-old Georgian woman leaves her parents' home to live alone, defying generations of family obligation and patriarchal expectation. This is a quiet, observant drama about the cost of choosing yourself—not triumphant, but tender and exacting. For anyone who understands that independence isn't selfish, just necessary.

TMDb rating

3.7

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