Film

21 Grams

Name: 21 Grams
Genre: Drama, Crime, Thriller
Released: 2003
Cast: Sean Penn, Naomi Watts, Benicio del Toro, Charlotte Gainsbourg, Danny Huston

Iñárritu's fractured, unforgiving drama slices three lives — a dying mathematician, a grieving mother, a born-again ex-con — into non-chronological shards after a fatal accident. It's heavy, elliptical filmmaking, more mosaic than story, asking you to assemble guilt and consequence out of order. For patient viewers who want acting showcases and moral weight over plot momentum.

TMDb rating

7.3

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