Film

Dear Zachary: A Letter to a Son About His Father

Name: Dear Zachary: A Letter to a Son About His Father
Genre: Documentary, Crime
Released: 2008
Cast: Kurt Kuenne, Andrew Bagby, David Bagby, Kathleen Bagby, Shirley Turner

A home movie that becomes something else entirely. Kurt Kuenne set out to make a loving tribute to his murdered friend Andrew for the son Andrew never met — then the story kept getting worse, and the film had to follow it there. It's raw, artless in the best sense, and utterly devastating. Watch it once; you won't forget it.

TMDb rating

8.1

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