Film

Capturing the Friedmans

Name: Capturing the Friedmans
Genre: Documentary, Crime
Released: 2003
Cast: Arnold Friedman, Elaine Friedman, David Friedman, Jesse Friedman, Seth Friedman

Andrew Jarecki's documentary uses the Friedman family's own home movies against them, turning a Long Island child-abuse investigation into a portrait of a family unraveling in real time. It's queasy, ambiguous, and refuses to hand you a verdict. Expect to leave uncertain and a little rattled — this is for viewers who want moral complexity, not closure.

TMDb rating

7.1

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