Film

Rabbit Hole

Name: Rabbit Hole
Genre: Drama
Released: 2010
Cast: Nicole Kidman, Aaron Eckhart, Dianne Wiest, Miles Teller, Tammy Blanchard

Adapted from David Lindsay-Abaire's play, this is grief with the volume turned down: eight months after their son's death, Becca and Howie Corbett are navigating separate, mismatched ways of continuing to exist. Kidman and Eckhart underplay everything. No screaming matches, no cathartic breakdowns — just two people circling each other in a house that's gone quiet. Patient, precise, and quietly devastating rather than tearjerking.

TMDb rating

6.6

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