Film

Look Both Ways

Name: Look Both Ways
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2005
Cast: William McInnes, Justine Clarke, Anthony Hayes, Lisa Flanagan, Andrew S. Gilbert

Drama

A low-key Australian drama about four friends confronting mortality and meaning over a sweltering weekend. It moves quietly between their separate crises—a cancer diagnosis, a failed relationship, infertility, existential drift—finding tenderness in how people circle each other during their darkest hours. Intimate, unhurried, and genuinely moving without sentiment.

TMDb rating

3.1

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