Film

The Child in Time

Name: The Child in Time
Genre: TV Movie, Drama
Released: 2018
Cast: Benedict Cumberbatch, Kelly Macdonald, Stephen Campbell Moore, Saskia Reeves, Andrea Hall

Family drama
Very dark
Slow-burning

A devastating meditation on child loss and marriage fracture. Benedict Cumberbatch and Kelly Macdonald navigate the wreckage of their daughter's abduction with excruciating honesty—no orchestral swells, no redemptive arc, just two people learning that grief doesn't end it destroys differently. Quietly brutal and necessary.

TMDb rating

2.9

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