Film

Daddy Longlegs

Name: Daddy Longlegs
Genre: Drama
Released: 2010
Cast: Ronald Bronstein, Alex Greenblatt, Sage Ranaldo, Frey Ranaldo, Eléonore Hendricks

Family drama

A father reunites with his young sons for two weeks in a cramped New York apartment. What follows is a portrait of parental uncertainty: Lenny oscillates between authority and abdication, between protecting and enabling, as the boys spiral into increasing chaos. It's awkward, funny, uncomfortable, and painfully honest about the gap between wanting to be a good parent and actually knowing how.

TMDb rating

3.3

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