Film

Let Him Go

Name: Let Him Go
Genre: Thriller, Crime, Western
Released: 2020
Cast: Diane Lane, Kevin Costner, Kayli Carter, Lesley Manville, Will Brittain

A grief-stricken couple venture into lawless territory to retrieve their grandson from a controlling family. Tense, intimate, and brutal—this is a film about love weaponized as obligation. Diane Lane and Kevin Costner anchor it with quiet fury. For viewers who prize character over spectacle and moral complexity over easy answers.

TMDb rating

3.4

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like patient, grief-soaked Westerns where the dread builds through quiet domestic scenes and the landscape does as much talking as the dialogue.

Skip it if you want a brisk genre thriller, since this takes its time, lingers on grief, and turns its violence bleak and abrupt rather than stylish.

What it asks of you: Nearly two hours with long stretches of silence and sorrow before the tension tightens, and a tolerance for brutal, unglamorous violence when it comes.

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