Film

Adopt a Highway

Name: Adopt a Highway
Genre: Drama
Released: 2019
Cast: Ethan Hawke, Elaine Hendrix, Diane Gaeta, Betty Gabriel, Mo McRae

A quiet, observant film about a man released after 21 years in prison for a minor drug offense who finds an abandoned baby and must decide whether to change his life. Ethan Hawke anchors it with a performance of restraint and surprise. It's patient, humane, and interested in how people actually rebuild themselves—no sentimentality, no easy answers.

TMDb rating

3.4

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