Film

It's Only the End of the World

Name: It's Only the End of the World
Genre: Drama
Released: 2016
Cast: Gaspard Ulliel, Nathalie Baye, Vincent Cassel, Marion Cotillard, Léa Seydoux

Family drama

A terminally ill writer returns to his estranged family after years away to announce his impending death. Xavier Dolan's film is a chamber piece of suffocating intensity—all sharp dialogue, wounded looks, and the unbridgeable distance between people who share blood but not understanding. It's for anyone who recognizes family as both sanctuary and minefield.

TMDb rating

3.6

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