Film

The Wife

Name: The Wife
Genre: Drama
Released: 2017
Cast: Glenn Close, Jonathan Pryce, Christian Slater, Max Irons, Harry Lloyd

Drama

Glenn Close is magnificent as Joan Castleman, whose Nobel Prize-bound husband's acceptance speech forces her to confront decades of sacrificed ambition and unacknowledged brilliance. It's a chamber drama about marriage as a contract that favours the wrong party, moving between the present crisis and the past mistakes that led here. Precisely observed, quietly furious, and anchored by a performance that seems to contain entire novels.

TMDb rating

3.5

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy slow, controlled marriage dramas where the real drama lives in glances and held silences, and where Glenn Close can carry a whole scene on one unreadable look.

Skip it if you need momentum and plot; this chamber piece moves at the speed of its tensions, and its dry wit rewards patience more than fireworks.

What it asks of you: Roughly a hundred minutes, mostly quiet rooms and close faces, with the tension building through what goes unsaid rather than through big set pieces.

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