Film

The Kindness of Strangers

Name: The Kindness of Strangers
Genre: Drama
Released: 2019
Cast: Zoe Kazan, Andrea Riseborough, Tahar Rahim, Caleb Landry Jones, Jay Baruchel

Social drama

A quietly hopeful drama about broken people finding refuge in each other. Clara flees domestic abuse with her sons and lands in New York's underworld of shelters and struggling businesses, where a Russian restaurant becomes an unlikely sanctuary. Director Björn Runge crafts something tender without being sentimental—messy, unglamorous, genuinely about how small acts of recognition can matter when everything else has fallen away.

TMDb rating

3.2

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